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writes:first off, i am gay, and was dating a closeted bisexual girl.i was in a relationship with this girl for about three years. at first, everything was great, like any relationship, but then stuff got a bit rocky. there was a lot of jealousy, there was a lot of anger, but in the end, we were always together, claiming we loved each other. we've gone extended periods of time where we have stopped talking due to fights, but somehow we always got back together. recently though, she made me feel as if i was not good enough for her, and as if i just wasn't a good person, so i just left her, randomly. a while ago though, i went back to her because i missed her like crazy. my question is, why do i want to be with her if she makes me feel like crap, and why do we always take each other back, if we just cant be together without fighting?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Both of you love the high drama and the fights are something interesting as it will bring out the best or the worst in you .Your present life is too dull and boring.
After each subsequent fight , you will find that you will understand her more and love her deeper.
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reader, ~sara~ +, writes (14 April 2010):
Well a lot of people stay together because they are comfortable together and don't like change. If you are in a relationship with someone for a long time it can be hard to start over with someone knew. Also some people don't like being alone and when you are used to having a girlfriend around all the time it can be lonely without her there. Another reason is maybe you really do love each other but you just don't get along. If you love someone of course you are going to want to be with them, but if you don't get along you will fight and there will be problems in the relationship.
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