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I still love my first boyfriend even although I accepted this other man's proposal!

Q.   I am so worried.. i have two options.. when I got my first i was so happy but he left me after 3 years.. he ditched me for a girl.. so after that i got a new friend.. he became my best friend.. he proposed to me many times but i refused.. then when ...

A.   19 September 2010: I say risk it and go with the first guy because you are stil in love with him after all this time. I think you might get hurt but it would be worth it if it works out. If you stay with your friend you will always wonder what might have been and I ... (read in full...)

Will it hurt?

Q.   If ive been 'fingered' quite a fair few times over the last few years, will it still hurt having sex for the first time? ...

A.   14 April 2010: Well it just depends on your body. The first time I had sex it hurt just when he stuck it inside me, but he was gentle and didn't hurt me at all while we were having sex. That's just me though and all girls are different so the only way you will ... (read in full...)

Why do we keep getting back together when all we do is fight?

Q.   first off, i am gay, and was dating a closeted bisexual girl. i was in a relationship with this girl for about three years. at first, everything was great, like any relationship, but then stuff got a bit rocky. there was a lot of jealousy, there wa...

A.   14 April 2010: Well a lot of people stay together because they are comfortable together and don't like change. If you are in a relationship with someone for a long time it can be hard to start over with someone knew. Also some people don't like being alone and ... (read in full...)

Help! Should I move on with my life or take on the challenge and be the guy she likes most?

Q.   I'm in a situation. I like this girl and would love to be more than friends with her one day. She is a very sociable and outgoing person, but I just can't stand it when she is with other guys especially when they all(many) hug her and she takes ...

A.   9 April 2010: Honestly it sounds like this girl is a lot of drama. From what you wrote it sounds like she likes her friend, but he isn't into her. She probably just flirts a lot because she likes the attention so if you were in a relationship you would have to ... (read in full...)

Pregnant with twins! Thank god it was only a dream but why do I keep dreaming this?

Q.   I know that this really has nothing to do with relationship advice, but I need help anyway! I'm a good girl, 18, and never even dated. But lately I've been dreaming that I'm pregnant! These are becoming very frequent, like 3 in the past week! T...

A.   8 April 2010: Twins usually symbolize opposites so maybe there is an opposition of your phyche. You can search dream dictionaries and sometimes they can give you ideas of what your dreams might mean. ... (read in full...)

Torn...do I take her back?

Q.   I have broken up with my gf of nearly a year and a half recently. I'm really struggling to cope even thought I finished with her. I felt stuck in a rut and didnt know what else to do. She was always angry and moody with me and i felt so tense when i ...

A.   29 March 2010: Well I wouldn't give her another chance at least for a while. I think you are just used to each other and it is hard to move on and leave your comfort zone. It sounds like you weren't very happy together and would fight all the time. You should be ... (read in full...)

Don't tell me to get over her - how do I get her back?

Q.   Met this girl online over 3 years ago and fell in love. She's perfect for me, the most wonderful girl I've ever met in my life and never have any of my physical relationships before her been as wonderful as my relationship with this girl. We would ...

A.   29 March 2010: Well she is only 17 and when I was that age there was no way I was ready to get married. Maybe you two are just at different points in your life. I would just give her time to figure out what she wants. It is hard since you have never actually met ... (read in full...)

What might be the cause of my boyfriend's moodswings?

Q.   i have been dating a guy for about 6 months and been official for about 2 months. i have noticed and he has admitted to me he gets mood swings. for instance, today was a great day. we went to the gym, we later ate lunch and talked on the phone. ...

A.   23 December 2009: Maybe your boyfriend has a phychological disorder such as bi-polar that makes his have mood swings and just hasn't been diagnosed for it. Has he tried getting help from a psychologist? I think that you should probably just get out of the ... (read in full...)

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