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writes:Why do some people play mind games and act immature with others? I recently had a "fling" with a guy who was married and had a baby on the way. From the beginning, this guy almost knew exactly how to my feelings and emotions. He gave me attention that my own husband wasn't giving me and I have to admit, it felt pretty good. This "fling" only lasted about two weeks, but it was nice to have someone telling me exactly what I wanted to hear. It seemed though that he was getting serious fast. He told me he loved me and that he wanted to marry me. I never went along with this and he seemed to tire of it. He also tried his hardest to get me into bed, which I didn't. He finally just stopped talking to me one day out of the blue. Come to find out, he was talking to several random women at the same time, saying the same things to them. He told one of the women that he like the attention. He has only been married for 3 months and as I said before, has a baby on the way! I just wonder if anyone has any insight on why ANYONE would think this is a fun game to play??
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 June 2010):
You had an affair. He had an affair. You were both playing games with each other, and both cheating. The difference? He wanted sex, and that's it and he told you everything you wanted to hear to use you. The price of having an affair with a married man is that they don't care about you. They really don't. A mistress is just there for sex, and a man will do and say whatever he has to do to get his way. Go back home and get to work on your marriage before you lose that as well and wind up with nothing.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (24 June 2010):
 I'm guessing he just wanted sex.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 That's a strange question coming from you.
You obviously think it's fun having a fling behind your spouse's back just to get attention and your ego stroked.
He likes exactly the same. So we have at least two fun-loving individuals here.
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