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Why do players always come out on top?

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Question - (28 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

What is it with guys???

I ended it with a manipulative, compulsive liar 8 months ago, and we hung out as mates up until june because our children were bezzie mates. It drove me nuts and I despised him. He turned nasty one night, and that was the last time I let him in my house.

Anyway, he owes me money still, I am going through courts for that, I had to try and keep on the right side of him for my childs sake, and the money sake in case the court case took longer than his house did to sell. (my only way of regaining the money is thorugh his property)

Funnily enough, he said he wanted to stay mates if that was ok, the bloke turns my stomach, but i'm a soft touch, he is such a slippery snake, but I have managed it for those 2 reasons above. He has dated shed loads of women in the last 3 months and all at the same time, then what ya know, a few weeks ago he meets someone 10 yrs younger than him, that apparently is a gold digger and playa but young enough he can obviously manipulate like he tried with me, and in some ways (money wise) he succeeded! and I dont hear from him, unless she is working (she's a barmaid)

Just had a txt from him saying hows it going in *****y's world then? I haven't replied, and wont be. just wanna smack him in the kisser to be quite honest.

He is the screw up that cant deal with a decent honest relationship, yet I have met a few guys since we split, and still haven't settled down!

Why do the playas find life so easy! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008):

Players are the ones usually doing the hurting that is why! You are the one being hurt not them. They are in control and are not losing out. I believe that deep down they do have a conscience though. Dont give them the time of day or show them you care! they feed off that!

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