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writes:I posted almost a week ago about my situation but now its changed a little and I want to know why I feel soo guilty!!Im suppost to be moving to canada in the summer for a year but I dont have to...anyways my ex lives in canada and theres a slight chance that when I go over we may get back together and he is infact my first love and even though we have been broken up now for 9 months I still do love him.Anyways start of December I started making out with this guy at the weekends and he is someone I see on a daily basis so I was getting to know him and he is amazing!! He is soo kind, sweet, loving, caring, romantic, got a realistic and refreshing view on life etc and I now officially really really like him. However just over a week ago he had confessed he didnt want a relationship because he liked another girl, so even though that would have been my second night staying at his he liked someone else. I explained my situation and we were both like ok.But now like I said Im falling for him....thing is I think it may be same for him. Ive officially stayed at his house for 9 nights in a row (12 altogether now) and I went out drinking on Saturday night and I knew he was going out too and he came into the same pub as me bought me a drink and sat with me and my friends - his friends came in and they spoke with him and he went and talked to them at the bar for a little while then came back to me and at the end of the night I went back to his ofcourse but one of his friends was coming back for a drink too and mentioned the other girl and they got into a convo and openly admitted that nothing will happen between him and this other girl and his friend was like oh whys that and he said well I was laying in bed on thursday at 10am and thinking about it and realised that she is a really good friend and I wouldnt want anything to spoil the friendship we have therefore its best we just remain friends and leave things as they are. (I was sooo shocked at this and at 10am he was actually laying with me in bed)He works shifts and this week he works 6am-2pm and Im off work this week and I drop him off to work in the morning and he kisses me when he leaves, looks at me and says I'll see you in 8 hours...which is my que to show up at his around 2.30 and openly told me he thinks about me at work and misses me and has mentioned he talks about me a little bit to much at work and now its likely people will be suspicious (as no one at work knows about 'us')Anyways what do you think?? Is he falling for me like I am for him? and why do I actually feel guilty??
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reader, Starlights +, writes (18 January 2012):
 Your feeling guilty because maybe deep down you still love your ex? this is what you started off saying so this is a possibility that your not being true to your feelings.
The only way to find out if this other guy is serious about you is ask him directly.
I know you had the conversation before and he mentioned he liked someone else...then he's changed his mind... so he may be falling for you... but really and truly he needs to decide if he wants to be with you and you need to ask him (again)
Goodluck!
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