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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,Why I always fell in a wrong relationship? I’m 30 yrs old been engage once he is my boyfriend for almost 8 years since we are in collage. After I graduated I left my country to work in other place. He cannot wait me so he widows the engagement. Past few months later I tried to be in a relationship again. I’ve been with him for 2 and half years. He is another nationality and his working on the same country where em I. But he had been cancelled so he came back to his own country. Again I failed, for a while I play just to forget him, just to forget what happening to my life. Then I think that I started to be old need to find a real relationship. My dreams is so simple to have a husband who gonna love me for the rest of our life’s to have my own children that we can supports their needs, but this dreams was too far from me. Once, one fortune teller told me that it gonna be hard for me to find the right man if I always choosing my career, Yes I have a good career! Sometimes it comes to my head to give up my career and go back to my own country but is ridicules! Then I again I tried to be in a relationship, don’t want to elaborate it but if someone remember I wrote here a while ago. And no doubt I failed again. I don’t know what is wrong with me. Is there something wrong with me? I’m not ugly at all, and I never cheat if I’m in a relationship. I’m so real to them gives all I have, my love, my care even my money, but why this is happening to me? Please I need your help.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (19 May 2013):
 Have you tried dating yourself? What I mean by this is why are you so afraid to be alone, enjoy your own company, enjoy your life as is, without stressing about the past and the future? Treat yourself like you would any of these men. Give all to yourself, spend money on yourself, travel, see the world, go out to restaurants and movies with your friends. Enjoy this time by yourself, because when you do get that relationship and the kids, you will wish for some alone time.
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