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Why didn't my wife orgasm?

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Question - (9 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So my wife and I have been fighting lately. Normally, I am the one who gives in says I'm sorry, etc etc. Whether it's my fault or not. But lately, when we fight I've been standing my ground.

Well, she started crying the other night saying that she feels I don't love her anymore. Because I never used to act that way.

So this morning, we had sex and she didn't orgasm. 99% of the time she does. She said that's never happened with any other man.

I'm just wondering if maybe she didn't orgasm because last night we were fighting, didn't really reslove anything, and maybe it was a mental block or something? Any advice?

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (10 May 2010):

She's not relaxed- woman need to be totally into the sex and be able to let go. Your fight has her distracted.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (9 May 2010):

person12345 agony auntYeah, it's probably that. She'll probably come around, but it's kind of expected to have a little trouble orgasming after a fight, especially if something doesn't feel resolved. I think you two need to talk about your issues and resolve them not so much so she can orgasm but for the sake of your marriage. You should try to get to the root of why you're fighting so much.

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A male reader, connor sloane United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2010):

connor sloane agony auntwell if she only orgasms 99% of the time then myb you jus got in that 1% were she doesnt. dont worry about it, try having sex again soon after you ejeculate an myb she will that tym

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