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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I have been hanging out a lot and we are always flirting with each other. I am really attracted to him and I think he likes me too but I'm not sure, I know he is a really nice guy and a gentleman. Don't get me wrong, he isn't shy or anything, he is really outgoing and not a jerk, like all the others I have been with. I think I am attractive, he is single and he gives me complements all the time. We partied together one time but nothing happened, even though we were drunk and usually a drunk guy makes a move on me but he didn't. The last time we hung out, we were saying goodnight and he gave me a hug like he always does but this time it was different. We held each other longer and tighter and then looked into each others eyes. I really wanted to lean in and kiss him but I was too nervous. Instead he took my hand in his, smiled and said goodnight. I am so mad at myself for not kissing him but I am used to the guy making the first move, I've never done it before. I'm just thinking why didn't he kiss me? Was he nervous too or did I just misread this whole thing and he doesn't even like me?
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reader, jstdunno +, writes (18 August 2009):
Make the first move , you said you were nervous so was he probably. There's obviously something there. Go for it , what's the worst that could happen?
And there's nothing wrong with shy guys by the way you say it like it's a disease.lol!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (18 August 2009):
 he was nervous too probably i think he may be torn he likes the relationship the way it is with out to much sexual things. hes not one to rush. maybe he wanted to be sober or he was so drunk he didnt realise could have been kissing a hot girl. i would say dont worry about it im sure this guy likes you but dont rush him dont over analyze your young have fun you have plenty of time
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