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writes:hello. at school 2day me and my bf were hugging each other as usual :P we have been together for 2 and a half months.well his mate came up to us and said 'are you 2 in love?'and we just didnt really say anything. and then he asked my bf if he was inlove with me and my bf didnt answer and i just said we dont wanna talk about it with you and stuff lol.so do you think that means my bf is not in love with me cos he didnt answer? or did he just not say anything cos he didnt wanna say yes and think that i might not be? Reply to this Question
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 embarassed to say it in public, and he doesn't know what you think yet. i'm pretty sure he loves you. it's pretty natural to not say anything in that situation. other guys will think hes a wuss
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
CD always has great advice.
If your boyfriend hasn't told you that he loves you yet, he probably doesn't want the first time to be in school in front of his friends. How embarrassing for him!!
You've only been together for two and a half months... your relationship is still pretty young with lots of room to grow. You don't have to be busting to the "L" word yet! Wait until both of you are ready and don't let any of your friends pressure you into taking your relationship further than it actually is.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Two and a half months is a bit early to be feeling love although I suppose a lot of young people think theyre feeling love misplacing it for something else. It could be one of many things... he doesn't feel it, he's not ready to say it, he didn't want to be embarassed in front of his friend, he doesn't think it's any of his friend's business, he wanted to see what you said first or simply that he just doesn't know. The only way to know for sure is to ask him but even if he says he's not in love with you give him time. It's still very early.
CD
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