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writes:Me and My Ex Broke Up 2 Months ago and a month later I found out he had a new girlfriend , his friends told me he would say she's awsome in bed better than me and gives him whatever he wants when he wants it. but Recently their relationship ended and I found out he dumped her because he misses me. He's also been asking me questions to know if I've been with someone else and if they were better than him and when I see him he fliers with me alot. So Now I'm Lost Because why would you leave a girl thats better than me in bed gives it up faster and does whatever you want To come Back to me ? Does he really like me or he isn't satisfied by her ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): The flakiest people are often the best in bed -- their lack of inhibition, their need to please at any cost. But it doesn't take too long before you decide that 30 minutes of pleasure isn't worth 23.5 hours of their other behaviours.
My wife is not the best person I've ever slept with (not that I'd ever hurt her by saying that). But she is the person I've loved the most. Which is what counts.
I can imagine that hearing that you are not the best he's ever had can hurt you ego. But here's a thought that might stroke your ego a little -- even giving that other woman that head start, he has chosen you at the finish.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Because sex isn't everything. Maybe they had nothing in common or she was boring out of bed.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Ok well she might be better in bed than you but sex is not everything. There is more to a relationship than sex as am sure you are well aware of. Has he actually told you himself that he wants to get back with you? Just make sure you are clear that he does and it is not just friends adding bits on to the story.
If he does want to get back with you and thats why he has left his girlfriend well I guess it just means that he wants to be with you and feels he made a mistake finishing things with you, she may be better at sex but she may not have the full package. Talk to him and see what it is he wants and ask yourself are you prepared to get back together with him.
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