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Why did my ex contact me for no reason? Was she thinking of me?

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Question - (27 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, *illow_pusher writes:

so i live in the states for univeristy, and on the last day of exams my ex decided to text me for no reason other than to ask me how i was, and how the semester ended. i replied with a cold good and im getting ready to go back home, and then she asked me if i missed my family, and i said of course i do. that was the end of it. mind you we hadnt talked for about 4 months and she texts em out of the blue. she has a gf. i dunno what she wanted. and then 3 days later the day o was leaving for home. i text her and asked her how she was. but she never replied! oh and when she texted me it was around 10 so why was she thinking of me that late and why would she text me?!

its driving me crazy, i want to know why on earth she would text me. i mean, its not like we were on talking terms.

any ideas on why she contacted me for no reason?

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A female reader, pillow_pusher Canada +, writes (29 June 2008):

pillow_pusher is verified as being by the original poster of the question

you guys are right, i prolly shouldnt think too much of it. Thanks for your opinions and advice :)

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A male reader, Simon says Australia +, writes (28 June 2008):

just a thought.. but maybe she was out drinking with friends, got rejected or just felt like she needed some male attention and text you - hence the 10pm message. Take it as a positive man, you're obviously the closest thing to a BF in her life after four months of not talking.

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A female reader, tamsine83 United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2008):

She could be playing mind games hun, some people don't want their partners but also don't want any1 else 2 have them. It could simply be that she was randomly thinking and texted upon it, Try and clear your mind, but don't go running, never be under control of someone, especially an ex. Take care xx

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A male reader, Transcowboy United States +, writes (27 June 2008):

Transcowboy agony auntOnly she knows why she texted you. It could have been cause she was wondering how you were going, could have been that she misses you. Or it could have been for some silly reason only she knows. Dont spend alot of time wondering what everything means, it will drive you crazy if you let it..

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