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male
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41-50,
*ilopinoPhenom
writes:last night my girlfriend and i had sex 2 times and and hour apart once at 6 and once at 7 then after that we drank cuz it was new years so i drank a lot of alcohol then when we were going to sleep we were going to have sex and when i got hard and had sex for a bit i went soft. why did i go soft? was it cuz the alcohol or cuz we went at it twice already? then 20 mins later she finished me with a handjob cuz i got a bit hard again. then in the morning she gave me a handjob at 9 and then at 12, 3 hours later we were going to have sex but i couldnt get hard. i was mad at the fact i had to work at 3-7 and there were distractions like people talking outside. did the fact that i was angry at work, drank alcohol in the night, distraction outside, and going at it a couple of times before affect it? please help
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reader, Sweety123  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 sometimes when guys drink to much they can't perform
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Must agree that alcohol can definitely affect it, as well as stress, anxiety and possibly the repetition.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Yea I think all those play some factors in it. From personal experience,I was seeing this guy for 6 months and when he would drink the same thing happen to him. He would also think he could re-vamp himself minutes after he already came, and well the same problem. Lots of things can play in it. Energy pills, stress, tiredness, alcohol, too much of sex, outside stimuli anything
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reader, starstruck.x.x.x  +, writes (1 January 2010):
its because of the alcohol. and think about it, its all very well for the girl to want sex but shes ready for it....you have to become hard first and if you've already had sex twice perhaps you just couldnt handle it down there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Hi, ur prob was just the alcohol, it was too much for ur system and dropped ur sexual libido.Next time, i advice that u take ur time, eat gud food that can at least neautralise the alcohol, it cld even be fruits, then ur gurl is gonna beg u to stop.Though, that depends on if u were gud.
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