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Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

Q.   Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubb...

A.   14 June 2012: Basically I heard that one of his mates who my friend knows was leaving the navy base down here next week and leaving for good so I just asked him how long he was gonna be around for and then he said he was going on the ship in September and I asked ... (read in full...)

Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

Q.   Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubb...

A.   13 June 2012: So what do I do? ... (read in full...)

Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

Q.   Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubb...

A.   13 June 2012: So I text him saying 'I'm up for something casual if you are ;)' and he replied saying 'sounds good. You're quite forward aren't you' Oops Is that a bad thing? :p ... (read in full...)

Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

Q.   Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubb...

A.   12 June 2012: Thank you for your advice everyone, And sandman I know it'll be hard not to get attached but i really love the idea of having sex every now and again (with the same person) but not having to make the effort every day like you have to in a proper ... (read in full...)

Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

Q.   Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubb...

A.   12 June 2012: basically when I met him, after about 10 minutes he asked me if I wanted to 'go somewhere else' then told me it couldn't be his place because he lives in barracks. But because I was so drunk nothing happened even though I wanted it to. I know I've... (read in full...)

Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

Q.   Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubb...

A.   12 June 2012: I know I'm probably over thinking it, I just don't know what to do. I've never done this before and normally I'm a proper over-thinking, over-analysing freak haha but all I want is sex with a good looking sailor, I just don't know how to initiate it ... (read in full...)

How can I cuddle with him but be subtle while in the cinema?

Q.   I need some advice. I've had boyfriends in the past but we never really went on dates. However i've met this boy who i really really like and we're going to the cinema together tonight, can anyone offer any advice about cuddling in the cinema? how ...

A.   4 January 2012: hello all :) The film started and then gradually we were cuddling more and more. Then he dropped me home and we sat in the car talking for a few hours :o then we kissed just before I got out the car. It was a perfect night. Thank you all for your... (read in full...)

Marrying an older guy soon..but he treats me like a child! What should I do?

Q.   I'm getting married in seven months...but I'm just not happy in the relationship..I'm marrying an older guy, who is more established than I. Which would normally be a good thing but the closer we get to our date the more he makes me feel like I'm ...

A.   3 October 2010: Do you love him? honestly? take some time to think about it; if you dont then what are you doing marrying him and having to spend the rest of your life with him? if your not happy now, think about how you might feel a few months down the line aft... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant! What's going to happen?

Q.   i am 14 me and my partner want a baby , i might be pregnant and we really hope i am he is scared what will happwn if i am what will happen to the baby ?...

A.   3 October 2010: YOU WANT A BABY? YOUR 14 LOVE!!!! wait another say 10 years and think again. it's a bit of a wishful thinking situation. think, how long have you been with your boyfriend? do you honestly see yourself with him when your 60? wait til you get... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   30 September 2010: No it's not like that at all. Your saying I'm going to be used for sex but I'm saying what if I don't mind that?? And there's nothing wrong with my mum; my dad is 11 years older so it's just that she can hardly have a go at me and even if she s... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   30 September 2010: I told my mum; she said she doesn't mind about the age as long as I'm happy. Yeh I might not be as mature as you lot but I am 17; if it's just about sex then it's just gonna be a casual thing about sex. I'm not bothered to be honest and yeh I do ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   29 September 2010: I'm just wondering aswell what you mean by face to face talk/time?? Cus I'm thinking when were together how else would he act?? ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   29 September 2010: ok we'll see won't we :P nah i do think your right, fair enough if he is just after sex. ive got school to be thinking about anyway so its good that im not getting into a proper relationship; maybe it will be good to just have a casual thing, i dont ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   29 September 2010: Cerberus - thanks for the advice. but i just wanted to mention your point about how if your trying to get with a teenage girl then you dont take her to places apart from to a bar or to your flat but i met up with him last night and went to his ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   28 September 2010: hey :) thanks for the advice, i wouldnt quite say i was in love with him; i cant stop thinking about him but i wouldnt say that was love. i received a text from him saying he thinks he did the wrong thing and that it doesnt bother him about ou... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   27 September 2010: I haven't heard anything more from him since and hope that it does stay that way :) thanks all for your help I really appreciate it ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   27 September 2010: Hey again, I agree with flynn he can't get pinalised for what everyone is calling 'date rape', fair enough he 'preyed' on me as your all calling it but I was just as willing to go through with it as he was (albeit if I was drunk) He replied ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   26 September 2010: i text him asking if he knew how old i was and he said yeh your cousin said you were 22 and i asked her and she said yeh i told him you were 22 last night. so i text him again saying 'i'm 17; i didnt realise you didnt know my real age, i do really ... (read in full...)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

Q.   basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

A.   26 September 2010: Hey :) thanks all for your messages. ive had quite a few texts from him today; not replied to any, i thought it was best to get some feedback first. i do really appreciate you all giving me advice, most of it is really helpful so thanks. blac... (read in full...)

Agony Aunts... please help. My girlfriend is getting abused at home...

Q.   Dear agony aunts, please help... Ive been talking to this girl for 2 months now. Shes gorgeous, smart, funny, sexy, has good morals, and i can hold a conversation with. Basically shes the perfect girl for me.. We're both juniors and 16.. Beca...

A.   2 January 2010: hey, i think what you said to her was spot on and i think you have now put her in your position and she now knows where she stands. and persoanlly i think phone sex isnt hurting anyone so why not keep it up? ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my friend that her ex called her fat?

Q.   one of my friends just broke up with their boyfriend, and i was talking to him and he called her fat, do you think i should tell her?...

A.   1 January 2010: No. why does she need to know? you wont be helping anyone by telling her, your friend will be mad at you for telling her, she will also be upset and also if they want to be friends later on you will ruin it now. this sounds to me like jealousy, as ... (read in full...)

Why did I lose my erection?

Q.   last night my girlfriend and i had sex 2 times and and hour apart once at 6 and once at 7 then after that we drank cuz it was new years so i drank a lot of alcohol then when we were going to sleep we were going to have sex and when i got hard and ...

A.   1 January 2010: its because of the alcohol. and think about it, its all very well for the girl to want sex but shes ready for it....you have to become hard first and if you've already had sex twice perhaps you just couldnt handle it down there. ... (read in full...)

Agony Aunts... please help. My girlfriend is getting abused at home...

Q.   Dear agony aunts, please help... Ive been talking to this girl for 2 months now. Shes gorgeous, smart, funny, sexy, has good morals, and i can hold a conversation with. Basically shes the perfect girl for me.. We're both juniors and 16.. Beca...

A.   1 January 2010: First of all, I just want to say your not naive for stating that you love a girl...your just in love : ) Now down to business, firstly, the only thing you can do to stop him beating her is to report him. however, this would put her whole family... (read in full...)

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