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writes:So I was at my boyfriends [c] last night for New Years, and he had 1 friend over [d]. To me C was acting kind of funny, he was more .... affectionate, he seemed to want more love. D has always cheated on his girlfriends, I'm afraid thats a bad influence on C. I didn't have to go home last night till my mom wanted me home, but C wanted me home by 2 AM. D said later he was going out to see his girlfriend, and get some drinks. When I was around C it feel different then when we were alone, my gut feels like hes cheating on me, because hes cheated on girls before. I don't want to ask him and make him think I don't trust him, I need help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know, I saw him texting a girl named Lacey last night and she called him babe, he has went out with her before, but they were talking about how Lacey was scared if 'he' was hurt, so I'm not sure there. He always has his phone in his pocket, I wouldn't be able to get it without asking to see it, then he would ask why and I wouldnt know what to tell him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 January 2010):
You're trusting instinct when you need proof. So you need to find some really. However, if he has cheated before, there is more of a chance he is cheating now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I'll take all of your advice, but how can I tell him? I love him, I can't break his heart even if he is cheating on me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Well your young, and if this guy is cheating so what there are going to be pleanty of people out there for you. From a personal perspective I say yes trust your instincts. Many things this past year have made me believe to trust my gut feeling. Everytime I had a gut feeling I ignored it just to find out days later I should have listened to it
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reader, xAx +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Try to find evidence if he is cheating on you or not. E.G. take a look at his inbox in his mobile when he isn't looking.
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reader, cheerdancer +, writes (1 January 2010):
it sounds like to me that he might be cheating on you. Im not the best guy person but thats what i think it means. Most guys that i have dated that have cheated on me had acted sorta like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also noticed he didn't tell me he loved me last night, he always tells me he loves me...
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