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writes:I am really confused.. I used to like this guy but felt like he doesn't feel the same way about me. Few months ago my friend tells me that "the guy" told her that he loves me .. now he talks to me on facebook for hours at night and sends me texts he also compliments me like he likes my eyes.. he never did that before.. my problem is that I don't like him now..I am upset when ever I think about him..and get mad when I imagine him saying to my friend that he likes me .. I don't want him to love me .. he is sweet and caring ... He is not the best looking person but I liked him..but that was then and now I don't know what's wrong with me.. I simply hate him sometimes I am just waiting on him to say I love u so I could turn him down and tell him that I hate him .. I know I am being mean but that's just how I feel now ... I knew about his past affairs when I liked him and it didn't bother me but now it does.. he is very sensitive ... If I don't reply him on facebook or texts and asks me if I am mad at him.. and why didn't I reply him... Why am I feeling this way... Why do I hate him now...? sometimes i feel like i am just being selfish and rude to him ..he gets hurt.. and when he tries to be sweet with or compliments me i take it as a joke .. and i feel like he is lying .. why am i feeling this way?
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reader, joannni  +, writes (13 April 2012):
could it be that he's annoying you and wont leave you alone. you liked the chase, when you werent sure of his feelings for you. and now that he's "sorta" desperate for you this annoys you.
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reader, EyesofJag +, writes (12 April 2012):
It could be that you got what you wished for and are unsure how to handle the situation. Here is someone you had admired for a long time and thought he didn't like you. All of sudden, you got what you wished for (in a way) and now you may not know what you truly want.Since you're getting to know him more, is there something about his personality that you are rejecting, or never thought he would be like? I agree with Moo's Mum in that you hating him shows that there is still a connection and possibly a desire to be with him. The opposite of having a crush on someone isn't hate, but indifference.Truly reflect on him as well as being a relationship. Search yourself to further understand what is it you would want in a relationship.One more thing, don't be mean to him. Fight that feeling because you will regret it later in life.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 Hate is the flip side of love. When you hate someone you still have deep feeling for them or otherwise you wouldn't even think about them. I hope this makes sense.
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