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*ovemeright11
writes:The other night I wanted to have sex. So I asked my boyfriend and he said "can we wait till tomorrow morning?" so I said okay fine then I got up to go to the bathroom came back and he was naked I asked him then, why are you naked? Then he said "cause we are going to do it!" I said okay I don't believe you I think your just teasing me. We should go to bed. He said I am serious we are going to have sex but, you have to wait 3mins. I said why do I have to wait 3 mins? He said cause you have to have patient. So my question is why did he try to make me wait 3 mins? I mean we did eventually have sex but why would he make me wait? It does not make sense cause he even laughed about it when i questioned it. Does anyone get this? he actually counted down the 3mins he would not even let me try to get intimate until it was 3mins and vice versa he would not touch me sexually. I still love him but I am just curious on others take?
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reader, sugar rayx  +, writes (30 March 2011):
He was either being a total prick or yeah playing with ye
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reader, Illithid +, writes (29 March 2011):
 I'm with DrDivine on this one. It sounds like he was trying to tease and build anticipation. Heaven knows my ex always made me wait...
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 I don't see why you wouldn't love him, he was obviously playing. He first tells you that you have to wait till tomorrow, you go to the restroom come back and find him naked and tells you to wait, and you have whats coming. He is playing around because eventually he did sex you up right? Why over think!
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reader, DrDivine +, writes (29 March 2011):
It’s called playing games and building up the tension, frustration and passion. I think you are reading too much into this and by the sounds of it not only do you not understand his motives, you seem to think there is something negative behind it. At the time you were waiting, how did you feel? Were you feeling desperate to touch him and be touched? If so that is great – his plan worked. If you were sat there feeling confused and questioning everything too much perhaps you need to relax a little more and simply go with the flow of sexual fun and games. I always play games like this with my partners – it drives them wild!! Me standing there in some alluring outfit and telling them they can’t touch me but every so often gently caressing them and teasing them with my words. All that tension building up and the desperation of wanting to touch and wanting to be intimate – knowing its there but they’re not allowed it. And in the end when they’re allowed to touch they are ravenous with passion and it makes for some amazing sex. Try it some time, you might like it!
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