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writes:so here is the situation. im 20 yrs and my boyfriend is 28 yrs old. he has a son with his ex and i have a son with my ex. we have been dating for 9 months and now im in the position where its too difficult. he blames me for a lot of the finances when i do pay my half. i get so frustrated when he says he has no money and he works long hours. i feel very unhappy with him.i love him but its so complicated because he has a bad past (slept with many women) before me.he gets annoyed when we go days without having sex and he turns to erotica sites or stories on the internet to please himself. i just get so mad at him because ive found naked pictures of his ex on his old computer and pictures of them having sex it grosses me out that he kept them. its bad enough that he has slept with over 200 woman but its getting to the point that i cant take it.he says he loves me but i just dont believe him anymore and im sick of hearing excuses from him. i end up just crying wen we talk about it and i need to break up with him for myself but how should i do it without crying when i have my son to think about?
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reader, shabby-chic  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Hi, Surely there is a limit to everything, it appears his behaviour robs you of your confidence and the longer you let him, the worse you will be. For the sake of your son, please do something. Is there a friend you can reach out for, someone you trust. Firstly do something for yourself, and when you can regain this independence then you will feel strong enough to just let him go.His behaviour affects your son as much as it does you, and you have the whole of your life ahead of you to meet someone who appreciates and loves you. Saying he loves you, is empty when his actions prove otherwise. Naked pictures of his previous girlfriend are disrespectful especially where its been candidly displayed in front of you. I recommend you find someplace else to live and just get away from him. If you work then you will find a way to manage with the support of loved ones. You are only 20, don't let your life go to waste. Warm Regards,
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