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anonymous
writes:So this guy and I have been hooking up for about 4 months, i guess you'd say we were sex buddies. Well I began liking him and I am pretty sure he liked me because he'd always say he liked me and one night we were cuddling and he said "lets play a game- you say something I don't know about you and i'll say something about me." he probably did this because I'm a very quiet and shy person and I have also been trying to not let myself fall too hard for him. So i thought everything was going well and now I haven't heard from him in about a week. I'm afraid to call him because i tried calling him a week ago and he didn't pick up- granted it was 3 o'clock on a weekday. But i really don't know what to do because i started to like him a lot, he'd always tell me i was pretty and how much he loved my body and i fell for him even though i tried not to. What's the deal? why did he stop calling and should i do anything?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 February 2009):
Maybe he met a girl he liked so he decided to cut ties with you?
Friends with Benefits relationships only EVER work if that is what you are: FRIENDS.
You weren't his friend, you were just a girl he was sleeping with.
If you like someone then you DO NOT sleep with them until you are in a relationship. Guys lose all respect for you if you do, and people NEVER go from FWB to Boy/girlfriend.
You've lost him hun and I'm sorry, but you have learned that lesson that you will never get a man by sleeping with them.
Good Luck!! xx
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