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writes:Im in love with a guy who has all the character of being a flirty one. He always wanted to go out with me but it wouldnt work out. He ask about my likes and dislikes to my friend. After 3 months he said that lets break up. I asked him why he said that he wants me to be a successful woman. Besides im not meant for him because i am pretty, a nice girl wherelse he is a useless guy. Even he told that there is a perfect guy i will see and he will be the 1st person to be happy about it. I asked him whether he is breaking up with me because he is with another girl. He told that "it doesnt mean when every guy is breaking up with a girl , he is doing that because he found another one" i begged him to come back to me but he told that he never even hold my hand so why are you taking it seriously. I want you to concentrate on your life. He ended his words by saying that he is loyal and faithful to me and also by saying goodbye, goodnight and sweet dreams. Why did he do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): *interested*
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): He's not interest in you like you are in him. He was trying to let you down as gently as possible and not hurt your feelings. I think as he said, you're taking this situation too seriously. Find a guy who feels the same for you as you feel for him.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (27 January 2013):
 I think he tried to tell you why. You and him are different people. He thinks you will study well and have a good career. Basically doing all the proper things. He on the other hand is a player and has no direction in life. He knows that it won't work well because even though you feel you are in love with him, he can't get past your parents. Well obviously because he can't afford to have a serious relationship and he has nothing to offer you in substance.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (27 January 2013):
Unfortunately, it sounds like he’s decided that, either he isn’t right for you, or you’re not right for each other. Perhaps he doesn’t know how to explain why he feels that way or chooses not to, but that is what it comes down to. This may be hard for you to accept if you don’t agree with his judgement, but if it’s how he feels there’s little you can do about it I’m afraid, so try to come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over and get support from people around you to help you do this.
I wish you all the very best.
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