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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,i once was married to a guy whom i got two kids with. My in laws recognized me as his wife but he delayed too much in officiating the matter. I later moved out of the relationship with my kids. He never bothered about our whereabouts until six months later when he inquired through text about our whereabouts. I replied through text that he first had to talk with my parents to get a go ahead so that we could go back to him. It has been a whole year now without any word from him! I would appreciate if at least he could show his kids some fatherly love even if he is not interested in me. Doesn't he have a heart for the kids? According to my parents he is supposed to ask for us and not me pestering him on the same. Please advice.
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reader, mystiquek  + ♥, writes (27 October 2010):
 Sadly, some men do not take an interest in their chidren. My ex husband went 12 years without even trying to get in touch with our daughter. Around her 16th birthday he finally made contact. You can't force someone to take an interest or care.He does have a responsibility to his children financially though, and I'd certainly pursue that avenue. I'm sorry, I know from my daughter how much it hurt her that her father didn't care enough to even make an occasional phone call. Its not right, but that's just how some people are. They just don't care.
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