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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we argue a lot, we have finished like 3-4 times for like a week or two but we finished today well this morning and like when we finish he always says horrible stuff like he doesn't want to get back but this has happend before and before but we end up we do get back together so I dunno what it's all about. I love him more than anything but why does he do this? He gets angry at the least wee things. We can go for weeks without arguing then argue then finish then he says he will think about getting back together with me then we're back together for like a day? Please help me, why is he doing this?!!!
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (23 November 2008):
 Maybe if you're always begging for him back and stuff, it's the only thing that he knows will hurt you when your mad. next time he says were over tell him to text you when he's calmed down it will be one way of getting less stressed. you need to talk to him before this and tell him that he has to stop ending it when he feels like it because it's really unfair on you and it's dead immature.x
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reader, Petina +, writes (23 November 2008):
 It is quite natural to have arguments early on in relationships. I'ts all part of getting to know each other and learning from it. You could try talking out your differences in a calm setting and agree to both try not to let it get out of hand no matter what is said. My hubby and I were just like that, we argued for years, always splitting up and getting back. The underlying problem was that he was trying to cover up a gambling problem but instead of facing he would start a row to cover it, me feeling guilty thinking it was something else. I hope that this isnt y our case. We talked it through eventually and honestly and now we havent rowed for about 17 years. Good luck.
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