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Something "special" for my birthday........

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Question - (23 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend said she wanted to give me something "special" for my birthday which is in a week and when I went to her house she had left her computer on so I checked some websites and while on google I typed in the search bar and some searches said stuff about a blowjob... I wouldnt mind it but I don't know what I should do? Should I just sit there while recieving it? O_O I'm so clueless help pleasee!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIf that actually turns out to be the case, be assured that your physiology will respond appropriately providing you are mentally receptive. Whether your girlfriend is experienced or not, you will reach a point at which you are going to release (ejaculate) explosively. If you try to withhold or have any mental aversion to ejaculating into your girlfriend's mouth, it will not result in the incredible experience that it could be. In other words, she needs to know that she is about to receive a gooey squirt of fairly bitter-tasting chowder in her mouth. Of course, she can always spit it out afterwards if she prefers. If she is comfortable with and reasonably prepared for all that, then it is your job to let it go. It will be the most amazing feeling you likely have ever had or will ever know. But if you or she gets squeamish about it, you will possibly try to stop or have second thoughts at the last minute, and most or all of the intense pleasure will be lost.

My advice, if indeed she intends the birthday blow job, is first to be freshly bathed, apply a small bit of cologne about your anus and lower belly area (not on the genitals), and when you are close to ejaculation, give her a verbal warning that you are about to "cum" or let it go. Since I know that my girlfriends are already aware what it's all about, my favorite warning is, "Go for it, baby!" Happy birthday dude.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008):

Just enjoy it, the gift is for you so you don't have to do anything.

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntIf it happens sit back and enjoy!!! It's your birthday bj! you don't have to do any work x

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