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writes: Just out of curiousity...Why are there so many young teens out having sex with what seems every person they are with?Isnt there parents doing anything? or caring what their kids are doing these day? y'know getting stoned, completely drunk besides sex.My boyfriend's an honest man and regrets what he has done with an ex in the past.However, i hate stories i just wana slap him for telling me. I dont wana hear how high you were!Y'know?I mean even my boyfriend wonders why too. You cant walk around school and hear some girls talking about what guy they screwed or hear a guy talking about what he did with his girlfriend last night.At some point in life, doesnt everyone have a regret of having sex?AT SOME POINT? It's like holy cow, Boy do i want to!But i wont!Im 15 and i KNOW BETTER...Sometimes i even wonder if any teen has self respect for their bodies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShouldnt parents at least have the common sense that its what teenagers are doing?Even if it is just talk.Cause even if they are talking about doing it...It could lead some other person on and..some one'll get hurt.
I mean...When my parents, your parents or even you (idk) were in HS, wernt there teens back then doing the same thing??And as parents, trying to stop your kids from doing that?or stopping them from their mistakes?
What about those kids that are on tv, 16 yrs old with a baby.They had theyre lives ahead and knew the what if's.yknow?
Ok,i'll be honest like always.I do want a baby, i reeeeeeeally do.I love babies, i want one of my own.BUT i know im not physically ready for that,duh im only 15.lol
Everyones raise different...So maybe its just how people raise their kids or how the kids think they are being raised.I dont know.
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Yes, I am saying that there are those that are just "talking" it and there's really nothing done. Many of them are like that. You want to be cool and fit in when you're in High School. Some succumb to the pressure of sex and others pretend they did.
And, I wonder the same thing about parents as you do. They should be wondering if their teen is out doing whatever they want. Some parents aren't in their kid's lives as much as they should be and it's a shame.
You seem very smart for your age and that is awesome. You already seem to know that friendship is important in an intimate relationship and that's great. You know, and think of, the consequences to being sexually active at a young age. And, you said you don't have friends that are "those kind of people". And having friends in their 20's isn't always a bad thing. Most of my friends were always older. I was mature for my age as well and found it more fun to be with people that thought like me. Just remember to stay true to yourself and your ideals because High School gets even more stressful with all of it's pressure to do this and that as you get to your junior and senior years. But, I think you will be able to handle it, you've already shown that you are a very intelligent young woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTrancedrhythmear: Im not friends with those kinds of people, i actually have friends in their 20's.Which probabaly isnt good for a gal like me but they know what its like and stuff.lol theyactually remind themselves that im 15 just cause im not like most teenage girls.
I do a lot of online gaming and thats where i can get away from hearing about what girls did what or what girls will do for you n all that junk.
Of course, yknow i hear about peoples past and stuff, which is nice to know.Learn from other peoples mistakes.And i have heard "i regret".
I mean from the begining of time people have had sex numerous times but times changed and young people now just dont get that sex something for a later in life thing.I get its fun and blah blah but what are you guna do if u get a baby on your hands your NOT ready for?..theres already people like that now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCharliesdevil73, I hope the same for me too. My boyfrind is my best friend and in time i hope it'll happen because we know it's for the right reasons(after im legal).Not just because.
So i think what your saying is that no matter how much i hear from most of these people, there are those that are just "talking" it and there's really nothing done?
Yes, i know that there are a lot of things teens do that parents dont know.I should of thought of that first and mentioned it.I am one myself. Shh, i dont have a boyfriend! lol. But as a parent shouldnt they at least suspect that its a possiblity that their child is out doing what they please as long as they dont get caught?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): wow refreshing teen right here. Good for you doll. You have high moral ground and stand it! It was bad when I was your age too! Girls who are promiscuous at that age are often very insecure and "always need a guy" to be happy or need to feel desired to survive. HUGE turn off for me and always has been, even at my age. Stick to your philosophies and if necessary cut friends/kids outta your life who bring you down and look at you in a lesser light because youre not with the "in" crowd. Developing your own person is huge at your age and you are definitely ahead. Keep going! Stay positive! :)
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (30 November 2010):
Many people your age are trying to do what everyone else supposedly has done. When I was your age, there were about half the girls I knew that were virgins and the other half weren't. And, then later, I found out the half that weren't, most of them really were. They were lying to seem cool. So, not every teen that talks the talk has actually walked the walk.
And, yes, I think at some point, the promiscuous people will regret some of their sexual endeavors. I can honestly say that I don't care to remember some of them that I have had. And parents don't always know what their teen has or hasn't done. Not all parents have a close relationship with their kids. I did a lot of things when I was in my teens that my parents still don't know about. It's easy to hide a lot of things from working parents who have a stressful job or what have you.
I like to hear that you know better though. It's nice to know that there are teens who would like to do things, but know to wait. Many that experiment at a young age don't find sex all that appealing because they do it for all the wrong reasons. I honestly believe it is so much better when it's with someone you really care about. I hope you get the right experience your first time, you deserve it.
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