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36-40,
*ngeleena
writes:Dear cupid,I am 24 and i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years 6months ago. The problem I am having now is that I talk to this guy online. We text,talk over the phone and all. But I have no feelings for him. I just need someone to talk to. I miss talking to him whenever he isn't there. We talk about just everything. He says he likes me,misses me and I tell him that too but then I don't trust him and I don't really care if he is fake.. I am so confused whats going on with me?? I don't know what I am doing. Sometimes I reason myself by saying I need someone to talk to in order not to stay lonely but isn't that being selfish? Someone please tell me whats all this?? Please help..
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reader, traeumerin242 +, writes (24 April 2012):
Just keep it to a friendship. It's good that you have someone to talk with about things. If you don't trust him, then leave off some of the details of your life such as if you're seeing anyone else. However, perhaps his feelings for you are real, so you need to be honest with him that you're not looking to date him.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (23 April 2012):
 You are using him as a rebound perhaps? And yes, if you don't really care about it I do think it's a little cruel to string him along.
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