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Who gets the best orgasms - men or women?

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Question - (3 January 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Im not sure if there is an actual answer to this, but do both sexes get the same amount of pleasure during sex? for example if they both reach their 'peak' orgasm.

in other words, wat sex overall recieves more pleasure?

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A female reader, Crisy United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

Crisy agony auntI think boys and girls both get the same amount of pleasure however lads can get an orgam in more ways than girls e.g girls cant get a real orgasm through intercourse.

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A male reader, paul54644 United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2008):

paul54644 agony auntIn every way this is just a fun question, not a problem a such.

All I can say, as a male, is that my orgasm is intense and very pleasurable, especially when inside my partner's vagina. It begins with a highly pleasing feeling above the base of my penis, almost an intense and pleasurable swelling 'down there', and a feeling or emotion of real joy in my mind. Then the inevitable - the contractions and flowing of sperm down my penis into which is physically lovely and emotionally wonderful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

Believe it or not, but women actually have more pleasure receptors (sensitive nerves) in their zone than men. Researchers estimate at least 8,000 nerves in the clitoris, and some 15,000 overall. So the opportunity for intense sexual satisfaction for a woman is certainly available.

As previously stated, women are also capable of multiple orgasms and climaxes that last longer.

Unfortunately, it is estimated that only one in four men really know how to please a woman to greatest potential. Most men think that about all they need to do is get it up, stick it in and pump awhile. Well, that's about all the man needs to do for himself, but it's far short of what would really please a lady.

In the western world, this leaves an estimated two-thirds of females less satisfied than they could be, according to researchers, possibly without any true orgasm at all - much more so in most other cultures.

Yet the solution is really simple. Everyone has heard of foreplay, but not everyone really knows much about it. A woman is a very complicated sexual being and needs patient, tender loving care to reach her true potential.

I can't stress it enough, guys, "Take your time with her if you want to really be a ladies man."

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (3 January 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntWho knows? I can't experience a man's orgasm, and a man can't experience mine. I've always thought that guys must have because they get this big squirting finish at the end - I don't know, it looks pretty explosive to me.

Then again, women can keep going, going, orgasming, orgasming... men pretty much get the one shot.

Enjoy sweetness. As long as both partners are having a lot of fun, being safe and responsible... that's all that matters, sweetness!

xx India

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

As stated, women can orgasm repeatedly. My girlfriend is a good example, where she will often have 6 intense orgasms in a row. And as stated, men only really have one squirt at the end. I think woman probably get the most pleasure, but i'm a guy and i'm not complaining :)

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A male reader, troubledtoomuch United States + , writes (3 January 2008):

troubledtoomuch agony auntThis is impossible to answer, as there is no way for one partner to actually feel what the other feels. You might be able to get an idea by how heavy both partners breathe during orgasm or how much their bodies shake or something like that, but there is no way to really know for sure. The important thing is if both partners enjoy their sex together and their orgasms. If they both really enjoy it, then it doesn't matter who has the best orgasm. Some women, however, do have the advantage of being able to have multiple orgasms during one session. My wife usually has 2 to 4, while a girlfriend of mine many years ago could have only 1, but her 1 was more intense. Whose was better? Noone can ever know.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (3 January 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntNo gender receives more pleasure than the other but it's the females who get stuck with the resultant pregnancy if they don't use some form of birth control. Responsibility is the key word to remember.

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