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36-40,
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writes:Hey guys,I am in a very uncomfortable and difficult situation in life right now and this requires some difficult decisions on my part. I generally have a lot of will power and the ability to get through pianfull situationtions but one enduring situation has left me dazed and confused. I am originally from Mid West the but my family moved to the Deep South portion of the United States when I was in 9th grade. Not only did I experience culture shock in the highest levels but I was alsothrown into the most violent and hostile environment that I could be in which any acceptance was not granted despite my honest and hard efforts to accept the local ways. Everything was flipped upside down from what I had know before and IAfter this long term mental abuse I do not know who I am or what my roots are Anymore. To add insults to injury I have had no true friendships and no girlfriends or dates because I never have been comfortable enough with any locals for that type of interaction. I was hoping that this would change during college by getting out of state but my Father gave me a guilt trip and then threatened dis-own me if I did that. So now I am left as an old virgin who has never kissed had a girlfriend or even a date and very little social experience for my age. I know that in order to enjoy life I would need to sacrifice my 27,000 dallor/ year job and move into Yankee territory where I belong. should I choose my enjoyment of life or a good career?If I choose to leaveWhere can I go to find friends and espatially dates outside of hard parting and Christian churches who would be forgiving enough to understand my situation? P.S. I have always wanted to have a deep loving sexual relationship with one woman but my lack of experience is making consider a legal prostitute in Nevada despite the fact that it is against my morals and Buddist views.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): Do you live your life for your family or yourself? Do what you need to do. You can find a better job then that somewhere else. Believe in yourself, take a leap... You will find what you are looking for.
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