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writes: When ever my boyfriend ( we're gay) we had sex( anal sex) he always made m bleed. Here is my question, whats the cause will I get?
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reader, NightLad  +, writes (10 June 2009):
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I believe you should read Stephen E. Goldstone’s, “The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: A Medical Handbook for Men” Look it up on Amazon.com. I highly recommend it.
There are several factors that might contribute to the bleeding you experience as a result of penetrative anal stimulation. You may not be properly relaxed, he may be too rough, you may not be using enough lube, and a host of other possibilities may be coming in to play individually or in combination. Only you will be able to know for certain after learning the basics of the plumbing involved.
I would suggest that in all likelihood the issue is one that can be overcome with time, education, and mutual patients. Remember that there are literally millions of men AND WOMEN (for those who forget that tidbit) that both actively enjoy the receptive role during anal intercourse, and do not experience any negative issues thereof.
Commonly referred to as ‘the male G spot’, the prostate gland is capable of some pretty amazing sensations. Many men, gay and straight alike, enjoy the sensations of stimulating it. There are numerous toys built jus for that purpose in a variety of shapes and sizes, “prostate massagers.” Perhaps you may consider investing in one to help you familiarize yourself with that particular area of your body, prior to introducing a partner to it.
I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Well this post and so many others like it, just prove the point that the anus was patently not designed to be f____d. Anal intercourse is unnatural and now you are reaping it's dubious 'rewards'. There are a couple of homosexuals where I work who are abhorred by the thought of anal intercourse and only indulge in oral to get eachother off. Thought I'd mention that fact before the pro-homo brigade start hammering me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): You probably need to use more lubrication and only do it if it feels comfortable and you are relxed. You also might not be totally clean up there causing abrasions.
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