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writes:When you treat some one special, then they disappear, with out even a good bye, after months of pure joy, is it your fault, especially when you thought you both felt the same way Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 February 2016):
 I agree with the other aunties, have you checked? Facebook, phone, family, friends?
If you have and she just don't want contact then who knows.
It seems to be the "popular mode of dumping people" these days by "ghosting" them. Which means you basically just stop talking to them.
It does seem weird when people do this. It might be that as great as you FELT it was, she didn't.
It doesn't mean that automatically it's ALL your fault.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 February 2016):
 Did you do a wellness check to make sure they are alive?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (1 February 2016):
 Your question lacks detail, is there enough evidence to show that the person is not a victim of foul play, have the moved house or just dropped off the radar, with no phone or other contact?
Have you checked with her family, friends and place of employment?
How well did you know her/him?
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