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writes: I am only 15 years old. I have been in a relationship with this guy for nearly 18 months. I really do feel that I do love him and that it's not just lust, it's so much more! But I do need some help. Our relationship lacks a bit of trust. He trusts me as far as I know, but I cannot trust him at all. In the past he has been texting other girls, flirting with them and asking them to go round his house and when I find out he always seems to have an excuse. They are always pathetic ones though. Also in the past he has supposedly had a relationship with another girl which he denies. Now I live 430 miles away from him and I really need to find out whether I am wasting my time with him. I need to know how I can find out if he is cheating on me and if he does love me because I love him so much. PLEASE HELP ME. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO.
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reader, trusty +, writes (4 May 2005):
Hey this is Trusty who wrote the question. thank you so much for your help.I have been living apart from him for over a month, it may not be long but it feels like a life time. Things have changed a lot since I left though. We used to speak every day and he used to always text me, but that's starting to stop. I accept the fact he has his own life and so do I, but he has seemed to of forgotten he has a girlfriend! I guess when they say 'out of sight, out of mind' it's true.When I ask him if any girls have been flirting with him, he hesitates and then says no. I knew he was lying so I asked him again and he would say yes but wouldn't tell me who. I accept that fact that he has other girl mates but he seems to love the attention from other girls. He is an addict, still. Please help me again. I know I have asked my question already, but he has got me to the extent where he could flirt with a girl and when I find out, all he has to do is say "I'm sorry and I love you" and I just take him back. I'm scared if i tell him where to go that will be it for me. I won't find anyone else like him again!!! xxxx
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reader, madam treudeau +, writes (3 May 2005):
You live 430 miles apart from each other, for how long now? And you need advice. Wake up girl and smell the daisies and daffodils. You and you alone need to decide to stick it out or move on. I can only offer my opinion you are the one that must choose. But, if I were you I'd be saying bye, guy. You're way too young to be tied up in that long distance relationship. Look closer to home for someone that you can trust and care about. Or you can hire a private investigater to follow him around for a week or two costing you thousands of dollars. In my opinion it would be easier, less expensive, and more sensible to find someone closer to home.
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reader, kirstie +, writes (3 May 2005):
Finish him, for your sake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2005): Find a new boyfriend, one whose house you can actually go round! This guy is a waste of your time and you will get hurt. You deserve a man in person, not over the phone or the computer.
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