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When he jokes with me he he really wanting me to to do stuff, but afraid to come right out and ask?

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Question - (28 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

my question is kind of embarrassing but here goes i was dating a man last year and during that time we would engage in oral sex we have since then broke up but remain friends im still very attracted to him and think about him all the time but he is dating someone else i think the attraction is still there but not sure ,but here is the klinker he jokes about oral sex all the time with me in front of his current girlfriend she knows nothing about our prior relationship .i want what we had before including the straight great sex it was good ,if only even a short amount of time .my question is when he jokes with me he he really wanting me to blow him, but afraid to come right out and ask if he would ,i would should i just approach him.it's driving me crazy

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A male reader, metalinvasion92 United States +, writes (29 August 2007):

metalinvasion92 agony auntcould be or he could be joking its hard to say. you should confront him about it and tell him how you feel. if he feels the same thn cool but if not his loss good luck

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A female reader, Sugarbuns Australia +, writes (28 August 2007):

Sugarbuns agony auntProbably he's half-serious, just testing to see if you'll offer it when you can get him out of ear-shot of his new g/f. Instead of hitting him with the oral sex questions, the next time you are alone with him (like maybe when she goes to the bathroom) simply ask him how things are going between the two of them. See what he says. Then tell him that you wouldn't mind seeing him again, if he breaks up with her because you still have feelings for him. But don't be the "other woman". He needs to make a choice not have it both ways. Good luck.

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A female reader, xoWhEnYourArOuNdxo United States +, writes (28 August 2007):

xoWhEnYourArOuNdxo agony auntwell, it depends. You say his current girlfriend has no clue about your past relationship? If that's the case, I honestly don't think he's joking around. Also, how exactly does he say it? If he has a big smile on his face and is laughing, theres a chance he just might be trying to bug you. Give me more details and what he says and what his facial expressions are when he says it. Hope I could help:]

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