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writes:Me and my boyfriend wanna have sex, but we both are afraid of what people will think if they find out.Please, i need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, babylove1234 +, writes (7 July 2008):
im only 14 but sex this young is a bad idea. if it gets out you too are ruined, besides, it'll hurt your first time. even if you think you love him, if your asking strangers for advice on this subject please dont have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Unlike many of the people that have answered and are going to answer this question, I'm not going to tell you your too young. I think that you already know that and that is why you are afraid of people disapproving of this type of relationship. I believe it is totally your choice and only you can know if your ready now, Honestly i thought i was and by having sex with a guy that i thought i was going to spend the rest of my life with but didn't, tore me apart. because when you have sex you get and give much more than the physical aspect, you give a piece of yourself away that you can never get back. Please please please think hard and long about this decision it is a very important one and if you believe in god i encourage you to pray about it also ~bee
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reader, caitlin_breanne101 +, writes (7 July 2008):
 wow, so i saw the age on this post, and was completely shocked.by posting such a thing, i would assume that you are willing to take on such criticism as above...and i hope you will listen to it--as well as do the right thing.however:it iis/i your body,it iis/i your life,but please, please, please take the time to think this one through.bgiving your virginity away to someone is rough, and emotional. if you do this now, at such a young age, and in a relationship you are unsure if it will last...you are taking on many many risks. not to mention regrets later on in your life./bplease think about it, and the advice everyone has given you...***and chances are,if iyou/i think it is wrong...bit is/b.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Please, please, please don't have sex that young. I just don't think you are prepared for the emotional baggage that comes from sex. Plus all the physical aspects of it...STD's, pregnancy, and the list could go on. I know you think I'm some old person who dosen't know what I'm talking about, and perhaps I am...but I do KNOW you will eventually regret this choice...
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 You seem to know that people are going to disapprove of kids your age having sex - and that might be for a reason, don't you think?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 I agree with O'Connor: you're too young to have sex. Sex isn't just about the nice sensations. You get lots of other things with it, and you need to be able to handle the whole package. At the moment, you're not old enough to do it.
That is an advice. Please take it as it comes, full of good intentions. We don't know who you are, but would hate it if you bit more than you can chew.
Now, I have to say this much, too: Make sure you're not hurting anyone, not even yourself; but don't give a damn what people think about your having sex. It's your life.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 well how old are you? since your in the 13-15 age group, i think that you both are too young to be stepping into something like this. wat you need to realise is sex is a very emotional act, and it has its consequences. you are still growing and arent mature enough - the fact that you still care about wat ppl think if you have sex shows me that you may not be mature enough to have sex yet.
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