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writes: Men over 45!!!!!!!!!I really want to know ,what is going on. Do guys over 45 decline in sexual desire and erections,or is this just my husband? He used to be so horny,I couldn't keep up.,and now he is off sex,and his erections are week or lost. What is the truth???I hear,there are many men ends up with no sex drive and no erection in this age...But is it true,or false?What is really going on here? Is he just not that into me? Or is this aging process? I'm really disappointed, I miss my sexy healthy husband. What will happen in 10 years if he like that now? Thanks
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reader, bootleg12  +, writes (31 May 2010):
Talg to him and find out the problem. If its a medical issue. Then his doctor can help. If its an emotional issue that's harder to fix.
I will tell you from experience, an undiscussed sex life will stay undiscussed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): Hi. You really need to ask your husband why hes no longer interested. If you dont speak to him about it, its not hard to imagine what things will be like in ten years. The same as they are now! You have a right to ask as his problem is also your problem. Pick a time when its quiet and youre both relaxed and talk to him about it. He may be reluctant to talk as some men find it embarrassing but dont be fobbed off. Jnsist on the conversation taking place. When he does talk, allow him to say his piece. Dont disagree or interupt. Its either a medical\health issue or an emotional one. So talk to him and find out. All the best.
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Everyone is different. For some people this will certainly be true, for others it won't.
Have you tslked to your husband about this? If he sees this as a problem too then he might consider using viagra.
What did your sex life used to be like? I mean did you have a lot of variety or was it always pretty much the same thing? If you did different things then it might just be him getting older and losing his sex drive. If you usually did the same then you could try spicing things up a little.
If you haven't talked to him about it already I would definitely suggest that you do and then take it from there.
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reader, loonman4 +, writes (28 May 2010):
At that age testostorone levels start declining in men resulting in lost interest in sex drive. As for erections, he should talk to his doctor about maybe Viagra or Cialis or some other alternatives.
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