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I've met his friends and family... does this mean he's serious this time?

Q.   my current boyfriend of 1 year has cheated on his 2 ex girlfriends with multiple one night stand partners. he was with the 2 ex girlfriends for 2 and 1 years respectively when he was 27 and 30 years old. they never found out he cheated. He is now...

A.   1 June 2010: As they say, leopards don't change their spots. Unfortunately, you might have to move on.... (read in full...)

What will my husband be like in 10 years if he doesn't want sex now?

Q.   Men over 45!!!!!!!!!I really want to know ,what is going on. Do guys over 45 decline in sexual desire and erections,or is this just my husband? He used to be so horny,I couldn't keep up.,and now he is off sex,and his erections are week or lost. ...

A.   28 May 2010: At that age testostorone levels start declining in men resulting in lost interest in sex drive. As for erections, he should talk to his doctor about maybe Viagra or Cialis or some other alternatives.... (read in full...)

He's still have his profile in a Dating ste where we met. Was it a smart decision that I broke up with him?

Q.   "OP's Own title"I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I had found out that he is still keeping his old profile in an internet dating site where we met. And the worst part he viewed one of my "fake" profiles that i created to caught him. ...

A.   26 May 2010: I think it was a very smart decision to get out. If he still has his profile up, who knows how many other women he will meet? That is one of the main reasons that I hate dating websites.... (read in full...)

I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why

Q.   I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...

A.   26 May 2010: She's already told you that she's not interested, so I suggest that you move on and not waste any more energy on her.... (read in full...)

If a man has cheated in a previous relationship/marriage, is it likely that it will happen again?

Q.   If a man has cheated in a previous relationship/marriage, is it likely that it will happen again? I have been dating a very nice man for 6 months. He has been divorced for 10 yrs, I've been divorced for 5. I asked what happened in his marriage, ...

A.   26 May 2010: After being very hurt in a previous relationship, I started dating a woman who I only saw once a week. But I was'nt cheating on her, I think I was emotionally protecting myself. As for your ages, people do start getting set in their own ways. Six ... (read in full...)

I think he doesn't want me anymore!

Q.   Ok so I've been dating my bf for 6 months (not a long time I know but it's my longest relationship). When we first got together he was really sweet, fun and couldn't do more for me. Now it seems as though he doesn't want to be near me sometimes. ...

A.   25 May 2010: You will learn as you get older that the first 6 monthes in any relationship are always the most fun. After that, things tend to plateau...so don't panic and let things play out.... (read in full...)

Do older men have different expectations in a relationship?

Q.   I am 24, this man is 31. I've never dated someone older than 4 years and I am a little freaked out. I am used to being in control of the situation by dating guys around my age or younger. This new guy is good looking, has a job and seems like he is ...

A.   25 May 2010: In general, most men don't want to be controlled by a woman and would consider them "bitches" no matter what the age. 31 is not that old. Everybody goes through several relationships and learns from each one. Have you considered that you keep going ... (read in full...)

Is my fiance cheating, or am I paranoid? Please Help!

Q.   I don't know how I can tell if my fiance is flirting and possibly seeing my best friend. He seems to be constantly tugging her hair or tickling her or something. When I talked to my best friend about him flirting with her she said she didn't think ...

A.   25 May 2010: It does'nt sound like he's cheating yet, although that could happen if he continues like this with your friend.... (read in full...)

She texts the guys I meet and it is getting me down, please help!

Q.   Hey, i have my friend and she always go for boys i like. I don't see why she is doing this. she flirts with everybody she sees, i get its a bit of fun but once i tell her I'm texting a boy shes like 'when am i going to meet him' and once she does ...

A.   25 May 2010: It doesn't appear that she is a friend at all. I would'nt hang out with her if she continues to do this.... (read in full...)

I want to know if he feels the same way as I do?

Q.   I have strong feelings 4 my causins husband and i how do i know that he feels the same way.He is lonely cause my causin past away last year,i clean his house and do his washing,i even wash his under wears.what must i do?...

A.   24 May 2010: I'd start out by asking him if he wants to go to a social event with you. That way he won't feel so tense and you'll find out right away how he reacts.... (read in full...)

I don't think I'll ever be in life again without him

Q.   i just broke up nearly 2 wks ago with my partner of 3yrs and 8 months.we had finally moved in togteher but we had finacial probs cause i couldn't find work and i hated where we lived due to noisy neighbours above us.he broke up with me saying he ...

A.   24 May 2010: I think the pain will subside after time goes by, it always does. I know from personal experience. This guy had other reasons for bailing on you that I'm sure had nothing to do with you. The best thing is get out to social activies not just with ... (read in full...)

Should I just swallow my pride and change my religion to marry him?

Q.   i have been going out with a guy for more than eight years now. he said one day when we were together "lets get married" but i was just starting work so i told him we should wait a bit. He also says that he will only marry me if i change my religion ...

A.   24 May 2010: I agree with the other responders. But how about this perspective? why doesn't he change his religion to yours? You are too young to be worrying about being alone.As one person said, maybe he is no longer interested in marriage, so as hard as it may ... (read in full...)

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