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What should I do to ask him and get him to tell me the truth?

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Question - (24 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ass78 writes:

I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. His best friend is always around us and me and his friend have always gotten along. Over the past couple of months the best friend and i have gotten close and i have developed feeling about him.

Recently we were all at a party and drinking. Me and the best friend hooked up we didn't have sex.

I have talked to the best friend about what happened and confessed my feelings, but he won't give me a straight answer to my question about how he feels about everything.

I really would like to know how he feels about what happened and me but i think he is afraid because of what could happen.

What should i do to ask him and get him to tell me the truth?

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A female reader, 48years  +, writes (29 November 2008):

48years agony auntWow, what a great friend!

Forget him. Once a cheat, always a cheat.

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntLeave the best friend alone! It doesn't matter what he thinks at this point unless he is ready to have one less best friend. But remember this, he will always know that you are a two-timer and will never have 100% respect for you. I say, let it go and act like nothing happened. You look better that way as far as ethics go and will gain more respect, hopefully.

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