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writes:My friend only just meet this boy on Saturday who I've known for quite long because his in my and i told my friend i fancy him and she said ooh. then a day after she said she fancied him too. then tonight she asked him out for her self when she knew i was gonna ask him out for me. they go out now. what should i do? is she a true friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou should stand up to her. She's not a good friend. Find new friends and tell her straight about it. If she doesn't listen she isn't worth the bother.[moderator note: major grammatical, spelling, and punctuation corrections to make this answer legible- next time your answer may not get posted]
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): We guys have a very useful rule:
"Bros before hos"
Women should live by that too.
Although I believe the acronymn is:
"Chicks before dicks".
That maybe a little ahead of your jurisdiction, here though.
Flynn 24
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reader, Marco262  +, writes (26 June 2008):
Nope, not a true friend. There's a "waiting period" required in a case like yours where your friend should have backed off and let you make a move first before she gets to try. Less than a week is definitely not long enough.
Don't worry yourself too much about it, however. Chances are, this boy will be turned off at your friend's fickleness. And if he's not, would you really want to be with a guy who would be attracted to someone like that?
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reader, higo  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 ohhh... You know I'm sorry to tell you this but I don't think that she's your real friend...but just take it like that don't let a boy seperate u both ...and you have to accept the reality that he's going out with your friend so be strong because I really fell what you felling because I had the same experience before not the same but a bit close !!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 No. A friend who knew that you liked a guy first should have backed off. She either didn't know this rule because you are both very young, or she just isn't a good friend at all. Either way, she isn't a friend that you can put your trust in. Sorry.
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