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writes:ok first of all I don't want anyones advice if you're gonna judge me..anyway..so there's this guy..that I like..but I only like him when he has a gf..when he breaks up with her for me I don't want him..so..he cheats on her alot with me..so I guess I don't really "like" him..then there's this other guy..that I messed around with at My birthday last year.we use to be best friends until we messed around then it got awkward..we r finally becoming friends again and then bam..we made out last night..I pushed him off cuz I don't want a repeat...then..there's this other guy...I actually LIKE him..I don't wanna mess around with him or anything because I want a relationship with him..but he only kind of likes me...he doesn't go to my school so he doesn't know about the other 2 guys..idk what to do anymore..I know the first guy will pick his gf over me..the second guy is just a friend with benifits..and the third guy barely likes me..please help..
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (21 March 2010):
 The first guy gives you a challenge....kind of like how boys like a chase, sometimes girls do, too. You only like this boy when he's with his gf - you like to try to get him away from her. But then when he's not with her, the challenge is gone and it's boring. I agree with the second boy - friends with benefits. Third boy's hard to tell, but truthfully, I'd stay away from all three. You'll find a much better boy down the road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Hun, doesn't sound like any of these boys truly like you so I would hold out for something special and in the meantime not let yourself get used and get a bad reputation. You are worth more than that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): The first guy is a jealousy thing. When he's with her, your jealous. When he breaks up with her, your true feelings about him come out. The second guy, you're just gaining experience from, which is normal, and the third guy, you really do genuinely like, if you respect him enough to want not to mess around with him. In the future, only spend your time with guys you have feelings for, similar to the third guy. They might still not get along with you when you are together, but they're still worth trying for if you really like them and care about them at the same time.
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reader, Tata-marie101  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 hiaa x
dont worry im not gonna judge you acctually i have been in a simular situation x
Right the first guy the one you only like when he has a gf well thts perfectly normal because it makes him have that kind of bad boy side to him and you find it exciting and i know you might not want to hear it but it makes you feel wanted becouse he is cheating on his gf with you it makes you feel wanted x but i think in all honesty you should stop becouse you are going to be the one being hated by his gf and her friends and your best not getting your self into all that bother im pretty sure he aint worth it am i right ?? of course i am lol x and Your 'bestfriend' I know It will hurt Alot! But You are best just tellin him to get lost that clealery he doesnt care about your feelings if he wants to put you through falling out again to me thats not a good friend x
3 : and if you like this guy as much as yhoo say you do then get rid of the other two and tell him how much you like him :P
i hope i helped a bit xxx
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reader, sounknown31 +, writes (20 March 2010):
 well first off honey your young and you can have as many friend with benefits you want, but if you really want a relationship with the third boy you should really slow down how much you "hook up" get serious with the guy talk to him moree show him that you want more than just a friendship, i hoped this help be free to ask me anymore questions :)
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