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writes:what are the causes for a guy rejection a woman?what are the other causes that makes one woman sexually attractive and another not? because i am always always getting rejected in the coldest way. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 As a man, following are a few thoughts regarding what causes me to "reject" a woman on sight:
1. She may look attractive to me at first, then acts snooty (stuck-up).
2. I look and smile a bit, but she looks away (It's then all over).
3. I say something nice; she doesn't respond (all over).
As "Irish49" indicated, if you are unreceptive to a man's approach, you will most always be rejected as a possibility. Nothing can occur after that.
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reader, Basschick +, writes (20 December 2008):
 It's a totally individual thing. Every woman has individual tastes, so there are no cookie-cutter answers. Some women find short-haired guys attractive, some like long hair. Some like outdoor guys, some like men who wear suits. But most women will agree on a few things. We want a guy who appreciates us; allows us to be ourselves, is supportive; strong when we need them to be, soft when we need cuddling, understands our moods and loves us in spite of our bad days. Women generally like a guy who knows how to be romantic occasionally without seeming "sappy" or going overboard. Tell her how you feel without sounding clingy or whiny and you'll get her attention. I don't know what your experiences have been, but I hope this helps you out. xoxox
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 I think Irish answered the right way. Her answer does not respond the two questions the poster asked, but it does cover what the poster needs to know.
What makes a woman "sexually" attractive? Many different things. Her body, to start with. But then, you could run into someone you're not attracted to at all, sleep with her, and then find her very attractive because she's good at lovemaking. Or because she has a way about her that makes her hot. It is difficult to give a general answer. The question you need is whether you are sexually attractive, and that we can't tell, because we can't see you, and because every man will say something different.
BUT, and here is where Irish is right, if you're attractive, in general, then you become sexually attractive, too. And if you get an honest answer about what areas need improvement, and you follow Irish's advice, then you won't get rejected.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): What makes a woman attractive? Her personality, her sense of humor and her approachability. Her smile...her glow, her classiness and most importantly, her confidence. That has to shine through, above all. That's it, in a nutshell. If you are getting rejected and don't know why...ask a good, trusted male/female friend to give you an assessment of what needs improvement. And ask them to be honest..after all, it could be something that easily fixable. Good luck.
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