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*ora dee
writes:hiya my pal has been with her bf for 1 year know and she said she is ready to take the next step but there is only one thing her bf says he is not wearing a condom and she has come to me for help can u help me
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reader, Little girl x +, writes (6 March 2007):
 babesss dont let her do it.shes good enough to do it let alone without a condom.i doubt the boy wants a child!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Make sure that she doesn't sleep with her boyfriend as he refuses to wear a condom. Is she does go through with it then she is at risk of getting disease and falling pregnant.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (6 March 2007):
 Yes. First off (and this is advice for you and your friend) never sleep with a guy who's not willing to wear a condom. Yes some guys don't like them but that's not a good enough reason to put a girl at risk of diseases and pregnancy. She needs to ask him why he won't but there really is no good reason. Even if he's allergic to them there are a range of different material condoms on the market nowadays so she'd have options. My advice for you to give to her is not to sleep with him unless he wears one but if she goes against your advice, as loads of people do at this age, urge her to go on the pill to protect her against pregnancy and get regular STD tests. However all of that could be avoided if this guy would just wear a condom. I reckon that if this guy doesn't care enough to do that for her then she shouldn't be considering sleeping with him. Good luck chick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): I have some advice for yor friend.Any man that truly loved a woman would want to protect her from everything including std's, Aids, HIV, chlamydia and the like.Tell your friend to consider thisEven if your partner is deemed to be clean by himself, how do you know that everyone he has ever slept with and all the people that that person has slept with and all the people that them people slept with so on are..Always hoody up!( unless your in a lasting long term relationship where your doctor can confirm that you are both free of ailments and prescribe relative contraception)and even then i would still hoody up as you never really know what goes on when your not around.If he doesnt like it-lose him-they probably deserve someone better anyways!!
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 yeah tell your friend to tell her boyfriend either he wears a condom or she wont be stupid and she'll just say no you know? by saying that her boyfriend is being selfish
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