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writes:I have a rather odd question...When people say "talk dirty" (during sex), what does that really entail? Dirty as in gross? Could I get some examples? One of my exes once asked me to, but I had no idea what to say!
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Talking 'dirty' means getting sexually explicit or vulger. Personally I have never been very confortable doing it. I dont mind hearing it, but feel mostly like an idiot trying to do it. It feels forced and fake and silly. I tend to be very quiet durring sex. Sometimes though, now, with my current boyfriend, some things will just come out spontaneously and then they are a real turn on both to me and especially to him. So just relax, if it comes it comes, but dont force it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): Herewith a link that might be of interest to you and that will give you a lot of information and "tips" .
http://sexuality.about.com/od/talkingwithpartners/ht/dirtytalk.htm
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 I agree with Tremor, but it is also about knowing what turns your partner on. If there is something you know will turn your partner on you can easily make that dirty talk to drive him/her.
For example I know my husband loves my breats, so I tend to make very vulgar remarks about them and what he can do to them, to the result that he becomes very excited.
Imagination in sex is a very powerful thing!
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Talking dirty is basically talking explicitly about sex to your partner.
For example, things like:
"Oh baby, you're so hard!" "You're so sexy" or "I love it when you thrust deep inside me", etc.
It's basically just saying how much you like what they're doing, or telling them what you'd like them to do. be creative with it, and don't be afraid to use dirty words - after all, it is talking dirty.
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