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writes:I Feel real strongly with my partner and I trust her 100%, she is so amazing and keeps me happy. I love everything about her! Can you sense real love tho being with your partner few months? Reply to this Question
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reader, sheri36 +, writes (19 August 2008):
I am a strong believer in this! I met a guy who told me he loved me after two days of being together. It took me a little longer (2 weeks) to feel the same, but within 3 weeks we were living together and I just knew he was "the one"; I can't explain it, but I guess your description of a "sense" is pretty accurate. My family and friends thought I was nuts, and I was moving too fast, but when yoyu find love, and you feel as if its "right", then there is no moving too fast, it just seems to happen so naturally. Word of warning though, no relationship ever stays the same as it was in the beginning! Moving in together causes problems, arguements - that's normal, so does marriage, and children...all relationships have ups and downs! I can tell you this with some sincerity as this guy I met was the guy I married. We were engaged within 3 months, but I did wait 4 years before we got married. I've been with him for 17 years, so it is possible to know love when you find it, and there is no "magic" length of time to know someone, or such a thing as moving too fast. As long as you both want the same thing, you let nature take its course and don't worry about not being together too long. When its love, it works. I wish you every happiness together.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Hi there, sweet.
I like the word you used, "sense". I feel like one can "sense" real love coming... not to say that I think one can truly be IN LOVE in a few months, but I do feel like people can begin to sense it coming on.
With your faith in the relationship and the two of you having such a wonderful time, falling in love is bound to happen over time. Just enjoy the time that you're experiencing now together.
xx India
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reader, BendychickP  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 I believe that you can be in love with someone after only a few months. Although many people have different opinions about love. You obviously have very strong feelings for this girl and the relationship sounds like it is going well. Just enjoy being with her, and have fun. Best of luck.
Bendy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): Hi I am so pleased you are very happy together.
I believe love is a gradual thing, and does stem from trust, common interests/views/goals and a whole list of things.
Very gradual and I believe you really know after say 6-8 months. But you could be the starts of love yeah.
Fiona.
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