A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:It started as a year affair. I sold my house and moved out on my own. The the other woman decided I was still too close to my ex (we have 2 small kids. The other woman (OW) decided she was not in love with me and I just wanted to be friends and we need not talk for a while. Two weeks POW she calls to tell me she is interested in someone, she's going to have a party and that she may have someone moving in with them! She began telling how she was having a party new years and that she had someone moving in so if I drove by her house I would not be upset with an unknown car. I said I have not driven by your house and did not plan on driving by it. Then she said I thought I heard it the other night. OMG I have an Accord! Uh with mufflers! She went on and on. She then asked me to come by and of course I did. When I got there (yes she had been drinking) she explained to me that she likes this other person and she was hot and she was going to date them. I said nothing. She cried for a moment and told me her friends are so mad because she had called me. I leaned to kiss her she said no. I said I am going to sleep on the couch and she said no sleep in bed with me. NOTHING HAPPENED She text the next day and said she was sorry for calling me. I said no biggie and told her I was happy with decision we had made not to see one another. Well she emailed back and said I just want to be your friend one day I feel when I txt you I hurt you and you deserve a better person someone who shares feelings that you feel for them...blah blah blah....I txted and said again not hurt nice chatting with you take care.HEll yeah I'm hurt. I'm pissed! I was doing fine! And here she comes again!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF! Telling me she was going to start dating someone then recanting telling me today she was not. I said do what makes you happy if this person is whom you need then go for it! WHAT IS SHE DOING! WHAT DOES SHE WANT FROM ME?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (4 January 2009):
 I guess she was fine with cheating on your wife, but now that you are single you are just not her type of man no more, sorry she likes her men attached ( preferable married).
As for you having a good relationship with your ex-wife and mother of your children, well I think that is healthy.
For what ever reason she is trying ( like some high school girl) to make you jealous. Stop having contact with her and hopefully she will go away.
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