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writes:hi. my best friend thinks she's all that. she is 27 and works at a pharmacy with no real certificate while im 24 and a teacher at a high school. so she earns like a third of my salary and does not have a place of her own. she comes to my place every weekend but my problem is how she thinks shes better than everyone else and knows everything. she brags about the kinda people she knows and how much they have money and all that. l think shes competing with me and l dont know why, she was not always like this.
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Hi,
Whatever reasons she's behaving this way, bottom line is, she's not the friend she used to be. For whatever reasons she changed. I think it's best to distance yourself from her for a little while. She's negative person in your life.
Real friends don't compete with each other, don't brag about things, or people. She's clearly not a true feeling, so there's no need to keep her in your life. Friends support each other, understand each other, make each other happy. She's stress in your life.
Good luck
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 It sounds more a case of your friend feeling inadequate when she is around you. This could possibly be why she feels the need to 'brag' as you say, about who she know etc. You need to let her know ,that you are friends regardless of who does what, and how much either earns. Best wishes.
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