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writes:I just need to know if i should move onWhat is a sure sign to say that a guy is not interested in you? But he makes you think that you and he have a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): If you think he is just keeping you 'in reserve' some signs to look out for are;
Suddenly cancels plans with excuses of work or feeling unwell.
Doesnt even want to make plans..as mentioned by Cindy.
Suddenly becomes available for dates or meeting up, when it suits him.
You dont hear from him all day but he calls late at night.
Hes preoccupied, not 'in the moment' with you.
Doesnt notice new things about you but watches every other woman.
Reluctant to interact with your friends or family.
Not interested in sex/selfish during sex.
The best judge of whether or not a man is interested, is you. Follow your instincts.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 April 2011):
 I can think of a few right off the bat, I am sure there are more.
- Lack of planning. I don't mean like planning for your wedding or planning for a baby. Just normal stuff, like : Where are we going in vacation this summer ? Will you come to my cousin's wedding on May 28 th ? Are we going to the movies on Sunday ?... It will be all : I don't know.... we'll see... let's play it by ear...
- Distraction. He does not listen to you, he does not register what you say. You have been blowing his ear off all week about your new friend Janice, and when you say " Also Janice thinks that... " he'll look at you blankly and say : Who's Janice.
-Checking women profiles on dating sites or social networks, and saying it's just out curiosity or just to kill time.
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