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Is fourteen too young to lose your virginity?

Q.   Im a 14 year old girl. I met my boyfriend a year ago and have been going out with him since but we have broken up 3 times but got back together. It may sound like a childish relationship but i no that its not. Iv had silly little boyfriends in my ...

A.   15 June 2010: you shouldn't worry about what your "best friend" will think. your sex life is none of her buisness and unless you are sleeping with her boyfriend you should not feel guilty. as for 14 being too young that is up to you. if you feel you are ready ... (read in full...)

My best friend likes me, This keeps happening and I end up losing friends.

Q.   A few days ago my best guy friend told me he liked me as more than a friend. It completely shocked me. I have a boyfriend I've been dating for over a year and I talk to my best guy friend about my boyfriend all the time. For him to like me even ...

A.   6 May 2010: i feel you on this, and sadly i must agree with these guys, the only guy friend i've had who hasn't liked me or at least been attracted to me was gay, and even then there was a little attraction. so unfortunately you'll just have to hope that he ... (read in full...)

Could there be too much sex in a relationship?

Q.   im madly in love with my boyfriend, and we have an amazing sex life. Actually, thats pretty much all we do...When we're together we usually don't even go anywhere, we just stay at home and make love all day and all night. Sometimes it seems like we ...

A.   6 May 2010: i think that if you are both happy with the situation then you're fine! hell, sex is what kept me and my ex together for as long as we were. (dont worry thats not what caused us to break up :P) just think though, that is one area you two will ... (read in full...)

I just can't stop texting him!

Q.   I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I still can't seem to stop messaging him and texting him... he always blows me off and says he's busy and can't talk etc... I can't blame him for not really wanting to talk to me but I can't seem to stop ...

A.   10 December 2009: you are frustrated that he doesn't miss you as much as you thought he would, and if he does miss you then the fact that you keep texting him makes him feel like he has the power. so my advice would be to just FORCE yourself not to talk to him, ... (read in full...)

How often do girls fantasize about their boyfriends?

Q.   Ok this is a serious question. Im just curious here...... I, being a guy can honestly say I fantisize sexualy about my girl friend every day. I am not a sex pig. I am very considerate and a caring bf. I am just curious.... how often do you girls ...

A.   28 October 2009: i personally fantasize about my boyfriend multiple times a day. sometimes the mind just wanders haha. but i also have a pretty high sex drive. so idk if most girls do as much as i do, but im sure every girl does at least a little bit... (read in full...)

She's 100% mediocre and I just want to get rid of her. How do I do this painlessly?

Q.   Ok so I met this girl a couple months ago, and we're dating now. This is the first girl I have ever had real feelings for. When I'm with her I turn to mush, I smother her and make myself sick to my stomache with how nice I am to her. She isn't ...

A.   22 October 2009: think about it: as far as looks go..do they really matter? and being good in bed, that can be taught but the connection u seem to have with her is what really matters. you obviously love her, if u leave her u will regret it forever. trust m... (read in full...)

Why is he playing these games? I'm so confused!

Q.   soo sorry this is rly long, had a helllll of a weekend!! me and my bf had been together for 4 months. but we had been fighting all the time and started to get less close. so on friday (its sunday now) he came over after school and everything was ...

A.   18 October 2009: it sounds like he doesnt want to be with you but also doesnt want to be alone. he sounds like a jerk who's not worth it, you're better off finding someone who can make up his mind and isnt so confused. try to find someone older, their minds seem to ... (read in full...)

Midnight horrors and deep thinking takes me away to another place! Am I sane or insane is the question?

Q.   I get strange dreams every night. Always about the super natural. Most of the time very disturbing thing such as mini heads, impaled bodys, flickering lights, dark figures and canniablism. Somtimes it even gets to the pint where there are three ...

A.   16 October 2009: i dont think ur mental at all. i do the same thing and have insane dreams all the time..unless im mental too. it never makes me crazy it doesnt affect my normal life. ever since i was little ive been like this and ive lead a fairly normal life. ... (read in full...)

I'm 17..any suggestions on how to have phone sex with my gf?

Q.   Hello everyone i need some help. My long distance girlfriend of 6 months wants to have phone sex with me but the problem is i have no idea what to say while doing it, i don't wanna look like a complete moron while doing it. Like she asks me how bad ...

A.   16 October 2009: just tell her what you want to do to her in detail. make her feel sexy ask her how shes touching herself. tell her how hard you are for her. tell her what ur fantasizing about doing to her. ask her to do things to herself like touch her breasts rub ... (read in full...)

How do I prepare myself for anal sex?

Q.   Well i wanna have anal sex but im scared to.... Ive tried b4 but i think with just the little that the head has gone in it riped the sides and now every time i use the rr i sorta bleed but im scared more of the way it feels when the whole penis goes ...

A.   5 October 2009: use lube or a condom, my ex LOVED to do that and i let him cuz whatever. its not terrible , it really hurts at first, and it never ended up feeling good it was just really uncomfortable, but bearable i guess. not my favorite thing to do, bu got for ... (read in full...)

The girl I'm seeing has a very high sex drive! Please help!

Q.   The girl I'm currently seeing has a very high sex drive. Yesterday, we had sex four times, and if she had gotten her way, we would have had it even more than that! Obviously I can't complain too much, as there have been times in my life where I have ...

A.   23 September 2009: listen, i am like your girlfriend and my most recent ex was like you. i had no idea it was getting painful for him to have to recover so quickly and just assumed he was always enjoying it. just explain to her what you said here and she'll more then ... (read in full...)

How do I break up with him without totally crushing his heart?

Q.   So I've been with my boyfriend now for just over 2 years and it's been a good relationship. He's 25 and I'm 22 and we live together. The problem is that I love him but I'm no longer in love with him. I've been thinking for the last 5 or six months ...

A.   23 September 2009: you just need to do it. like ripping off a bandaid. do it in the nicest way that you can. dont say anything you might regret but let him know you dont want to be with him anymore. no matter how you say it he wont take it well. he'll be hurt and ... (read in full...)

What exactly do I do when I play with his penis?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for not more than a year. I love him dearly and I want to satisfy his every need. He says I do but he always get horny on his own. He does most of the foreplay and I feel bad because I want to play with his penis but ...

A.   23 September 2009: try to work him up by teasing him (not for too long) by gently stroking his shaft with your fingers then kind of play with the tip and talk kind of dirty. every guy likes it a little different though, watching him is a good idea, but another way to ... (read in full...)

Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?

Q.   My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on ...

A.   23 September 2009: dont do something jus because he wants you to, but honey giving head really isnt that bad. it might be akward at first, but after a while its actually kind of fun and a nice way to tease him and get what YOU want out of him (playfully of course). i ... (read in full...)

Paranoia, delusion, intuition or gut feeling?

Q.   Hi, Am I being paranoid, my intuition or gut feeling...my girlfriend love each other a lot and intend to get married one day, but I had this bad thought that something will break us up the other day that we will end up with different people...

A.   22 September 2009: whether its paranoia or intuition, try your best to forget about it right now. just make sure to enjoy every day with her. because whether something happens or not you dont want whatever this is to get in the way of what you have right now.... (read in full...)

I don't wanna lose him forever but I know I will if I leave.

Q.   Hey cupids, i hope someone can help me. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over three years now and I'm afraid I've just fallen out of love with him. I still love him, but I'm not in love with him.And its really difficult because recently ...

A.   22 September 2009: omg i just came out of the EXACT same situation. i completely understand how you feel. i just made the decision to leave my bf and see what happens with the other guy. i went back and forth with it forever an it was tearing me apart. but look if you ... (read in full...)

What shall I say to her? She really broke my heart.

Q.   Ok so this about my ex. We broke up two weeks ago as of 9/19/09 and I thought I was almost completly over her. I had even asked her sister out because I thought that was over her and was ready to move on. Anyhow, yesterday I was at school and ...

A.   22 September 2009: i think that you should wait for her to say something since shes the one that broke up with you. you dont want to risk getting hurt again. however even if she doesnt want to get back together with you just yet she probably misses you, especially ... (read in full...)

My penis is 5 inches and I'm too shy to have sex! Is that too small?

Q.   i am a male and i have 5 inches penis and i am shy to have sex . is it very small ? does girls will run away because it is small....

A.   22 September 2009: one of my exes was huge, but thats about it. he had no idea what to do with it. my last bf was about your size, however he def knew how to use it and sex was wayyy better with him. so in my opinion its all about how you use it, and how adventerous ... (read in full...)

I'm a little obsessed with this one girl so should I ask her out?

Q.   Okay I'm a 14 year old girl and recently I have found out that I'm a little obsessed with this one girl in my school. Last year I thought it was because I was jealous that she was prettier than me, and this obsession has been there since I first met ...

A.   22 September 2009: i think that before you decide to ask her out you should try talking to her first. i mean you might be obsessed with how she looks and stuff, but you might want to get to know her before making a decision like that, who knows? maybe it will work, ... (read in full...)

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