A
female
age
41-50,
*oddess_red
writes:i have been with my partner P for nearly 2 years,it was a typical eyes met, fell madly in love!! from the start P has had a female friend who within in a week of us getting together started texting him saying how hurt she was and she couldn't believe he was with someone else!! she spent a night telling my boss they had been in a relationship for years, P was very honest about the texts and showed them to me saying that she was deluded and that they had never been more than friends, but still she was texting and ringing him every day!! after a couple of months i had enough and tried talking to her, she was very calm and said she had been going through a bad patch and was jealous of my relationship with her friend but that she was over it all and now in a relationship herself,it was fine for a year but now if we are out drinking she has started telling people she cooks and cleans for him 'to make sure he is looked after properly' this has driven me mental as my partner and i live together!!! i have tried explaining to him how hurt i am by all of this and asked him to do something about it, but he seems reluctent to as he has been her friend for years(which she reminds everyone of on a weekly basis) i dont want to spoil a wonderful relationship because of this but it is really hurting me and it upsets me that P doesn't seem to think there is a problem, can anyone please please help????
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): the answer lies with your b/f, has he told you the entire ttruth about his r/ship with this girl. seems like he hasn't. she is not as delusional as you would want her to be.
you cannot get rid or her because yoeb/f wants her in his life. what for? only he knows and you should also soon find out. do not just accept what he says, do your own investigation and get to the bottom og this.
this girl will not humilitate herself for nothing, something has happened between them, go find out.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): i agree, i think he is probably sleeping with her! and probably has been since you got with him!!! sorry to say it!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): You're not going to want to hear this but he's probably been sleeping with her the whole time before you met him and while you were together. He tells her one thing and you another and he controls all the information so it looks like she's deluded. I bet if you talked with her you'd find he's been leading her on and taking advantage of her just like he has you.
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