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writes:Lately i have felt too tired for sex with my girlfriend. I see her either fridays or saturdays mainly due to me being busy during the week or too tired.Its been really busy lately with work and im exhausted. I also heard from an old girlfriend i dated 7-8 years ago and it messed with my head a bit. I probably pushed my girlfriend away a bit in those months.I haven't made many plans with my girlfriend lately, and we havent had sex in 2 weeks, by the time we will it could be 3-4 weeks. over the past few weeks ive noticed that my girlfriend is contacting me less and becoming distant and quiet herself. Am i causing this? What could she be thinking?Im nearly 29, she is 25. And yes i will be talking to her soon but just wanted some advice/opinions to see what might be going on in her head before speaking to her.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Yes. Yes yes yes yes yes you are pushing her away. This happens to me and my boyfriend every month before finals or if he gets stressed out. Unless your relationship is entirely based on sex, the fact that you're not having any probably isn't as important as letting her know you love her. She's gotten quiet because she's probably sick of missing you and wants you to miss her for once. Send her flowers, a card, letter, whatever, and even though she probably knows you're stressed, getting it in writing is so much better. Best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): i say book a couple days of work, and just spend some time with her and make her know you love her, and that you are their for her, and ex girlfriends are nothing to you anymore
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