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anonymous
writes:There's this guy that I have known for just a year, but we're becoming really close lately. I like him. but i'm trying so hard not to admit it to myself, because I know he has a girlfriend. We get along a lot, we kind of read each others minds, he so gets me and I trust him a lot. He's really a gentleman and treats me amazingly.The sad thing is that he never talks to me about his girlfriend. He talks to me about everything except her. For example, on a Monday he tells me about his weekend with his friends and family, but it never involved her. He has just mentioned her like 2 times; once when she had a car accident and he skipped class and then he showed the picture of her car. And this other time when he knew I knew her sister, (he told me 'oh you know X, she is my girlfriend's sister'). What bugs me is that he talks to all his other friends about her. They all know about her alot, but not me, even though he spends more time with me.What does this mean? Does he like me? His relationship with his girlfriend isn't that good? Does he know I like him? Please HELP!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 It means he likes you and sees you as a potential romantic prospect. He doesn't want to discuss relationship issues with you because that is a sure fire way to land in the permanent friend zone. It's also bad form to talk about other women when you're with one you like.
It doesn't mean however that his relationship with his GF is bad. It could mean he's open to the prospect of someone better "stealing" him away. I wouldn't recommend doing that though.
He may or may not know you like him. It depends on how obvious you are about your feelings and how good he is at reading you. If you really do read each other's minds though, it's a pretty safe bet he knows you're interested. He may not know how deeply you're interested, but he probably has some clue.
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