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*ouby
writes:I am really struggling, I know it's for the best but I am finding it so hard not to contact my ex today. we met last night and it's pretty muh confirmed it's over.. I hate it, I want him so much and now I feel so helpless.We said goodbye and kissed each other which was weird and lovely. I feel like there is hope but he says he's not oer his ex and can't give me what I want.I came home - a bit drunk and sent him a nasty text beacause he didn't check to see if I got home safe and if I was okay after being so upset. I felt bad this morning so sent three more messages.. he hasn't replied. I feel like the more he ignores me the more I want to contact him - it's messed up :( my messages were closure messages really wishing him well and saying that I don't want us to be starngers.. but maybe it's for the best so I can get over him.I have so much to look forward to and things to be grateful for but I acn't snap out of it.I called in sick today,I can't eat and I just feel miserable :(How do I stop myself from thinking and feeling like this... ?
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reader, Louby +, writes (7 February 2011):
Louby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for your response...
G, we were dating for three months.. not too long but long enough for me to have very strong feelings and be hurt.
He had only broken up with his ex a couple of weeks before we met and we rushed in quite quickly -it's clear now he was on the rebound
We had some communication overt the weekend as I have a lot of his things at my place, we are trying to aranage for him to collect them. I don't think i can see him without getting upset so I may try and out it off as I go on holiday on Sunday and the time away will make me stronger...
I was very good at the weekend and didn't contact him after the initial texts about his stuff
I have even arrnaged a date for tomorrow night, reluctantly but I am doing it... baby steps they say.
Thanks again for your advice and support
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): No more texts. The more you text and get no response, you will get annoyed and text again. It is a vicious circle. I have been there and got the T shirt. Go 'cold turkey' if you can. No contact. Cut him out of your life. It is so painful I know. But it is the only way.
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