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I asked a man I have been seeing if he was seeing anyone else, and his response confused me!

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Question - (4 February 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *enta writes:

I asked a guy who I have been seeing if he is seeing anyone else and he says this:

"You have been monopolizing all my free time...much to the chagrin of anyone else..lol"

What does he mean??

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (5 February 2011):

xanthic agony auntIt means he's been spending all of his free time with you. So no, he's not seeing anyone else.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (4 February 2011):

dirtball agony auntIt means no.

Full explanation: He is spending all his free time with you, and everyone else is jealous of you for it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

He used charm and flattery to divert your attention from a real answer you didn't want to hear. Until he says otherwise I would assume he is seeing others and not take him too sincerely.

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A female reader, kirra07 Canada +, writes (4 February 2011):

He either means:

A) He has been seeing other people and is trying to evade the question by making it seem like he didn't have time to.

B) He has the potential to be seeing others, but would rather be spending his time with you, and is trying to make you a little jealous.

Really, without knowing your situations, or the guy, I have no way of knowing which he meant (if he even means either of the above). But if the guy is an honest decent guy, I would give him the benefit of the doubt and go with B).

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