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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I just need a bit of help regarding this situation I met a man almost 2 years ago I fell for him almost immediately but not I realise he conned me into a fwb at forst he told me places we would go he was really loving saw him everyday for a month everything was great then it gradually became less and less I saw of him I haven't saw or spoken to him for almost 3 months now and I really miss him he was supposed to meet me at a friends party but he didn't turn up he said he wanted to talk to me what should I do now I really fell in love with him even thought he treated me bad like he would come stay at mine then when he thought I was asleep he would creep out n go home even though he lived upstairs from me in the same block of flats now he has moved I just peoples opinions on what you think of this situation thank you
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (11 August 2012):
 I don't think you need anyone else's opinion of this situation. Not with the facts staring you in the face.
You haven't heard from this guy in almost three months so I think it's a pretty safe bet he doesn't 'want things to get more serious'.
I'm afraid he isn't interested one bit.
Time to move on. Find something else to do and you will get over him eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2012): I think your flogging a dead horse he knows you like him he has no reason not to talk to you. He knows you wouldnt reject him.
1.he has lied
2.he used you
3.he snuck out your bed to go home
4.he stood you up
5.he has not seen or spoken to you in 3 months
6.SO when exactly did he say he wanted to talk to you
I would suggest forget him but sadly your not going to you would still have him back in 20 yrs when nobody else wants him
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (10 August 2012):
If he says he wants to talk, you should hear him out. Find out what he’s got to say for himself and then you’ll know what the situation is and what it means for you. He might have lost interest, he might just be busy. Or he wants things to get more serious and he’s nervous about how to tell you. The problem with people going silent is that you can often be completely mystified as to why. Whatever the case, listen to what he has to say and decide what to do on that basis.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 August 2012):
 you haven't had any contact with him for nearly 3 months...
he treats you badly
he lies to you
he uses you
I think it's time for you to let this go to your past and learn from it.
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